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My Destiny

One day, while Yeshi was walking to a market, behind her arrived a woman on a mule. While passing by, the woman looked at her and realized that the one who was walking on foot was her relative and at the same time pregnant.

8 months old  Girma
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She descended off the mule and called her, "Yeshi". Yeshi turned around to see the face of the woman. She knew that it was Elfinesh, her close relative. They greeted each other and Elfinesh invited her to mount on the mule because of her visible pregnancy. But Yeshi refused. Elfinesh, before she was back on to her mule, thought of something. She hesitated to speak it out for seconds. Then 'ehhhhem' a signal of tiredness came from Elsinesh. "Yeshi" she called. "Oo", responded Yeshi. Elfinesh continued, "I know that you have more kids- why do not you give me this one to me, since I do not have one to talk with".

When Yeshi discovered she was pregnant, she was disappointed because her husband abandoned her without telling his where abouts. She had been frustrated by her condition. In addition to her pregnancy, she would be responsible for most of the farm work to feed herself and her 3 other children, who were not mature enough to help her. She had to fetch water from distant water well and go to the market at least once in 2 weeks. While her mind was waddling, Elfinesh further said, " please give me the baby, be it a boy or a girl, I will take care of it as your kid will be my kid". The way Elfinesh approached her was so 'convincing', she decided to give her the baby. Elfinesh was extremely happy and kissed her several times on her cheeks and forehead. Yeshi who was aware of the death of Elfineshs’ son and the recent death of her husband, promised to give her the baby and then they departed.

Girma was born in a place called Shenkora on June, 06, 1962. He was taken by Elfinesh when he was 8 months old. The woman who had lost her big son due to accidental death was happy to have this baby with her. She took the maximum care possible giving him as much warmth. Elfinesh used to keep a number of cows that were giving milk, and little Girma was comfortable drinking fresh milk. She was kind to her neighbors and in her busy time she had assistance to take care of the baby. She also hired a lady to serve as a maiden at home.

At the age of 4, Girma had a teacher at home that Elfinesh employed to teach him the alphabets of Amharic (Ethiopian National Language) and of course to teach him reading and writing also. Elfinesh herself was an illiterate woman but intelligent enough to handle her share from the land tenure system through oral calculations. And she was hoping that little Girma would help her with this when he knew how to read.

In addition to her land in Shenkora, she had also a piece of land in the lowland area near a small town called Wolenchiti, 125 km East of Addis Ababa, Ethiopia. When Girma was 5 years old, Elfinesh moved to this town. By this time, Girma was able to recognize all the letters in thealphabet and was starting to connect the letters to create words and attempting to read. In Wolenchiti, Elfinesh rented a house and then eventually built her own.

Elfinesh, being the follower of Orthodox Christian Church, wanted Girma to be familiar with the beliefs of Christianity. She used to take him around to the churches on Sundays and holidays. Her ambition was for Girma to become a deacon, so she sent him to a church school not far from her home.

Elfinesh used to travel a lot, visiting monasteries like Menagesha and Debre-Libanos in Ethiopia, and Girma was always with her. One day, while both were walking to a church in town, she wanted
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to know the time. She suddenly turned to Girma and asked him, " What do you guess the time would be, "Aleme?" The word 'Aleme' is from the Amharic language and means "my world". She usually guessed the time from her shadow but the day was unfortunately cloudy.  At first he said, “I do not know.” Then he thought for a moment about what he heard from the school kids, and something clicked in his mind, “If you could buy me a watch I can tell you ..." he paused a little, "and …to know or read the time it is only possible if I join a government (public) school". This was the statement that Girma made at the age of 6 and it was a statement that changed the course of his life, his destiny. Dear reader of this web page, what do you think that Elfinesh will do on that day?